After you make the momentous decision and leave a relationship or a community, or if you are required to leave, you will hear about how great they are doing without you. It might hurt.

News Flash: Their lives are going on without you!

Another News Flash: You could not go on without your life!

It does always come down to that doesn’t it? Sometimes we come to a fork in the road where we have to decide whether to fulfill the expectations of others or fulfill our own lives. It is awesome to fulfill your life within a community. But when a community prevents it from happening, it’s time to leave.

They will go on without you. And you have to go on without them.