by David Hayward | Aug 1, 2014 | Podcasts
It was a pleasure talking with one of our members, Danielle Heyns. It’s great talking with you guys. It helps other members to realize that we aren’t crazy, but experiencing very normal transitions as we strive for our own spiritual independence. CLICK...
by David Hayward | Jul 30, 2014 | Exercises
This is a picture of a couple of watercolor paintings I did some time ago. I miss it. Let me tell you a story. Making art was an important part of my healing and reconstruction process. I didn’t know this at the beginning of my deconstruction. It didn’t...
by David Hayward | Jul 27, 2014 | David's Letters, I'm confused, I'm sad
I’m not talking about your romantic or marital ex. I’m talking about your ex-church. Now, before I begin, I want to clarify a couple of things: These can apply even in existing relationships (your partner or church now). These are not all the lies, but a...
by David Hayward | Jul 24, 2014 | Exercises
This is a really good article about emotional boundaries for work. But they can apply to family, friends, and church as well. It even applies to TLS! Here’s a chart: Read the entire article: CLICK HERE
by David Hayward | Jul 23, 2014 | Exercises
This is a very simple exercise that I find myself doing every once in a while. It’s become a kind of marker of where I am compared to where I’ve been and where I may be going. Here it is: What is one thing you believed 5 years ago that you now no longer...
