Many people in TLS have gone through unbelievable ordeals. Some of you are still going through them.
The chaotic confusion we experience when going through traumatic change is completely normal. Expect it!
BUT…
Is it possible to live so freely that you are not always second-guessing yourself?
Is it possible to live so carefree that you stop wondering if you’re being judged from above?
Is it possible to be so joyful in your newfound independence others can’t deflate you anymore?
Is it possible to relax and stop judging yourself?
Love yourself.
Be patient with yourself.
Give yourself grace.
You are perfect exactly where you are right now.
You can start by trying this: treat yourself like you would treat your best friend if they were going through what you’re going through right now.
Be nice to yourself!