by David Hayward | Nov 1, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm confused, I'm sad
Hi guys. I’ve been thinking a lot about deconstruction… that is, the changing of our beliefs, the loss of faith, the shift in our religious habits and behaviors, and the transformation of our inner and social selves. This is what I help people do. I’ve been doing it...
by David Hayward | Oct 18, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm okay
Where the Heck is Lisa? Lisa is my wife. She is a member of TLS, but she is not a very active member. That is, she doesn’t post on TLS much if at all. She might make an occasional comment. But essentially she does not interact in our community. Maybe you’re wondering...
by David Hayward | Sep 27, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm confused
When we change our beliefs and our allegiances, it’s also necessary to change our feelings about our feelings. I don’t know about you, but I was taught to not only distrust my feelings, but to neglect them, ignore them, repress them, apologize for them, and even...
by David Hayward | Sep 21, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm confused, I'm okay
An important announcement first: the forums are reopened! Thanks to your extra donations I was able to hire the help needed to get the forums back up and running again. Your generous donations are devoted to making TLS the best experience possible for our members! So…...
by David Hayward | Sep 13, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm sad
#TW suicide Hi guys! I want to tell you a story that might help you understand what helped to build my philosophy behind TLS and why I do the things I do the way I do them, and why TLS is the way it is. This story starts in the winter of 2007. Sarah, in the...
