Are You Unfolding?

Are You Unfolding? One of the most difficult things for me to realize during my deconstruction was that I didn’t have to be or do anything. In the religious cultures I grew up in, there was the constant challenge to do those 2 things: 1. Be something. 2. Do something....

Revisit “The 5 Stages of Deconstruction”

This is a video I made over 3 years ago specifically for TLS, but a year ago or so I opened it up for others to view. It’s not viral or anything, but on about a weekly basis I hear from someone who has really benefited from it. So I thought I would share it again with...

Letter: Exercises for Personal Development

In an effort to clean up our main site, I’m consolidating many of the exercises I found most helpful and popular with TLSers into one post. Whenever I come across a new one, I’ll simply add it here. So if you’re interested in exercises in the future,...