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February 23, 2013 at 7:49 pm #7430
Woke up in plenty of time, but had an email to answer over breakfast, and felt a bit pressed for time. The only reason I was at all wanting to go to church this morning was because of being able to talk with one or two people afterwards. I know I’d only put my own cynical spin on the message on my sermon notes, and probably wouldn’t be able to believe the song words.
Besides, I wanted to see what had been posted overnight on TLS. One of the disadvantages of my timezone is that most the traffic here occurs whilst I’m sleeping.
So I decided to skip it this morning. I’ll go for a drive shortly, I think, browse some country town shops perhaps, eat out somewhere, maybe overlooking a beach, do some essential grocery shopping on the way back home. I prefer the evening church service, anyway. And catching up on posts on TLS was better than a church service. Wonderful sense of acceptance. Felt much better.
February 23, 2013 at 8:32 pm #7433
AnonymousSo happy about your great morning! Sounds like you had a good time!
February 23, 2013 at 8:47 pm #7435wow staticsan. i’m jealous.
February 23, 2013 at 9:01 pm #7436@staticsan, I have a friend who will text me whenever she’s eating something gourmet, just to rub it in. Naturally I do the same back whenever I have the chance. I think you should do the same with us on Sundays sometimes. Something like “eggs benedict with polenta squares, roasted tomatoes and mushrooms sprinkled with a little gomasio”. I notice David often does it with coffee or tea descriptions, it gets my pavlov gourmet jealousy drool bell ringing. Browsing country shops, great food and coffee, a bookshop somewhere, a beach or non-urban landscape, it doesn’t get better than that. Church of the open air, ja !!!!!
February 23, 2013 at 10:43 pm #7442Well I’m currently out and about. Found some interesting country markets. Bought some crystals. Lunch was McDonald’s – sorry to disappoint! Going to look for some more curvey roads for my 924 to devour.
I like the idea of finding a gourmet coffee shop this afternoon.
February 23, 2013 at 11:24 pm #7443The only reason I was at all wanting to go to church this morning was because of being able to talk with one or two people afterwards.
I quit church for a year and half once except that I’d show up for the coffee time afterwards It took some people many months to figure out I wasn’t there during the service. I really enjoyed that time and to me the best part of church was going out for lunch after with a bunch of people. Maybe you should try that next Sunday.
So are you in Australia? You’re nearly a day ahead of me! I’m in western Canada.
February 24, 2013 at 5:23 am #7447McDonalds? Beats head repeatedly on keyboard…..
February 24, 2013 at 5:35 am #7451@cowboyjunkey I think they’d notice if I tried that! Not only is the church quite small, but I play in the band almost every other week. (Obviously not this morning…)
@helene I don’t have it much, so it was a treat. Normally I’d go looking for beachside fish-and-chips or a burgar bar or something but sometimes there isn’t a lot of choice on Sunday afternoon. :-/
February 24, 2013 at 10:25 am #7458Haha I will admit, I have missed my free Sundays! Its been solely “church day” for me that past three years. Staticsan, you complete rebel!
February 24, 2013 at 11:03 am #7462I will never forget the first time my husband and I didn’t go to church…way back when. We got up, put on a movie, sat under a cozy blanket and had coffee and lemon pie for breakfast. It was an amazing concept.
February 24, 2013 at 11:04 am #7463
AnonymousI’m hearing ya statistician with the notes an cyincism. Fortunately I have found somewhere now where I can be in church without too much of that but wasn’t so long ago I was there to. Unfortunatly for me, I am in the habit of speaking out at such times – some call that prophetic, seom call that being a trouble maker. I’m happy to be called either :).
So yup fell int the same trap of being here – I have David’s cartoons to thank for that *wink*. The one about the pastor zombie is hillarious. No evening service for me, I’m going skiing – finding a sense of belonging and acceptance in sports and the arts that I didn’t get in church circles. I’m a newbie here and hoping to find similar accpecance here.
February 24, 2013 at 11:07 am #7464
AnonymousOH 924 – I take that as being a Ducati 924? I used to hava Ducati monster but now have a Honda 800 VFR. Can’t wait for spirng
February 24, 2013 at 11:12 am #7465man i wish i still had my bike. i had a ’79 suzuki GS750. a pick up truck backed up over it in a parking lot. i wasn’t on it fortunately. never replaced it.
February 24, 2013 at 3:55 pm #7477I remember the first few months of home on a Sunday morning after going to church for 40+ years. It was like being released from a cage into the wide blue sky. I’m still conscious of that freedom every Sunday. I can relate, as well, to not believing the words I was singing. I endured worship close-lipped for a few years until I finally left. Worship was always such an intimate experience and after a while I just couldn’t bear to fake it any longer!
February 24, 2013 at 4:25 pm #7478@Adam-Julians Not a bike, a car. It’s a Porsche 924. It likes corners more than any other car I’ve had.
One thing I realized when I decided to go elsewhere is that I was I didn’t need to own the guilt of “I should go” when I didn’t want to. First time I’ve done that!
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