Marriage, Sex, and Everything in Between

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    SavageSoto
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    I know that I was heavy on the whole purity thing for several years, at one point I had even vowed to not kiss until marriage (hows that for extreme). I laxed on the kissing thing later, but looking back on things though, I admit that I actually regret waiting…because now Im in a place, both physically and mentally that I don’t know when I’ll get that chance again (although likely someday). There was at least one girl I genuinely loved that I wish I had taken the opportunity. I definitely don’t think it’s something people should rush into haphazardly, as our culture seems to scream “do it as soon as you can as much as you can”, but waiting til marriage is quite simply unrealistic in this day and age, especially since the average age for marriage now is around 27 (much higher than Biblical times, I’m sure). I mean, if someone really feels called to it, then more power to them…it just seems ridiculously that God expects everyone to do that regardless of the times.

    What does a piece of paper and a ring and a ceremony really mean at the end of the day? Nothing unless two people are committed to each other and their well being, which is totally independent of those things anyway.

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    David Hayward
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    I love it when grace salts conversation. There is so much guilt and shame being thrown around as weapons of control. Free of these weapons, I wonder how different life would be for so many.

    #7260
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    thejadedfool
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    Great point David…

    Thanx to all of you here… I have actually asked my self recently what “church” might be like if we all were in one place and COULD meet together!

    Hey David! I have a crazy idea…

    Have you thought of the possibility of having a “get together” or retreat for the TLS Members?? A once a year kinda thing…

    I would be down for sure!!

    I would even help put the thing together if you wanted.

    Peace & Much Love

    David

    #7261

    David Hayward
    Keymaster

    i’m game. where?

    #7264

    Helene
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    I propose David brings the coffee. And I think it has to be somewhere central like in the middle of the Pacific – I’m thinking one of the Hawaiian islands when it’s winter here – wooo !

    #7279
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    thejadedfool
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    David perhaps we should start up a new thread regarding a gathering…

    We could see if there is enough interest… and get an idea of who would really like to attend… then we could see where everyone would be coming from and get an idea of a good location…

    The Lasting Supper Family Gathering! =)

    Peace

     

    #7282
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    starfielder
    Participant

    Start the thread jadedfool!

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