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Exercise: write a letter

Yesterday one of our members talked about writing a letter to an imaginary friend. It was her way of articulating where she is at right now spiritually. She shared a link to the post in our secret Facebook group. It was a good read! I've done this many times. Writing...

this is my story this is my song

That's a quote from an old hymn, "Blessed Assurance". Once in a while old hymns like this one emerge in my consciousness. My favorite hymn of all time is "For the Beauty of the Earth". I still remember singing this as a very small child and being moved by the words...

sacred and desecrated

Here's a quote from one of my most favorite thinkers and writers, Wendell Berry: "There are no sacred and un-sacred places. There are only sacred and desecrated places." If you want to watch a very rare and excellent interview of Berry, you can watch it here.

late and absent and TLS

(*** A young woman contacted me the other day about his cartoon that was originally a white couple. She and her husband are Jamaican with dreads and she wondered if I could make the couple look like them. She sent an adorable photo of them. She also wanted him to say...

Exercise: Punishing Myself With Pleasures

Unlike all of you, I have some bad habits. They are your typical sins that I have tended to fall into when I'm going through a difficult time. They are: drinking too much; smoking too much; and being horny too much. It's not that there's anything morally wrong with...

smoldering anger and getting it out

I have a few scriptures that I will never forget. I still treasure them. Psalm 39:2 was always important to me: "My heart grew hot within me, and as I meditated, the fire burned; then I spoke with my tongue." Basically, David talks about how at times he was so upset...

my 3 kinds of books

I noticed something personal about myself the other day. No, it's not that lovely freckle in that special place. It's something I've been doing for years and never even noticed until recently. Here it is... I like to keep 3 kinds of books on the go at the same time. I...

i don’t need your pity

I had a conversation with a woman recently who was very sad that I was no longer going to church. She was even crying as she tried to express the heart of Jesus that not all churches were bad, that he sees my pain and wants me to heal from my hurt and let my wounds...

you can determine your level of involvement

For many of us, the church was a place of very unnatural and complicated relationships. In fact, often our relationships were codependent where jealousy, envy and competition was rampant. In such contexts feelings of exclusion, being ignored, unappreciated or needing...