by David Hayward | Jul 27, 2020 | David's Letters, I'm okay
Are You Unfolding? One of the most difficult things for me to realize during my deconstruction was that I didn’t have to be or do anything. In the religious cultures I grew up in, there was the constant challenge to do those 2 things: 1. Be something. 2. Do something....
by David Hayward | Jun 20, 2016 | David's Letters, I'm confused
This letter’s going to be short. I’ve been busy in many ways over the past 2 weeks. Lisa’s been in Alabama taking care of her brother following his open-heart surgery. She returns tonight. I can’t wait! Today I want to write about something that TLS values very much....
by David Hayward | Jul 19, 2015 | David's Letters, I'm okay
Be you: It’s your Right and Responsibility What I have come to realize is one of my most essential driving force is my need to be me. I not only want to be me, I need to be me. Throughout my whole life, in hindsight, I now see that almost every challenge I came up...
by David Hayward | Feb 28, 2014 | Feelings
A member asks: “How do you handle fundamentalist friends and relatives – do you recommend ‘playing things by ear’ by situation? Coming out fully regardless of the consequences? Or keeping your mouth shut?” Here’s my answer: Yes!...