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The Sacred Yes and No

I enjoy reading Richard Rohr, a Roman Catholic priest. I've also listened to many of his talks. Here's a great quote from one of his books about the sacred yes as well as the sacred no: "By the sacred yes or sacred no I mean that affirmation or negation that comes...

a bit of my story

I left my former church last year for a different one and one of my longings and desires wasnt to become a member. i just wanted to be in my church, be a member of the whole body of Christ without any affiliations except people. this is because its what i had come out...

So I went back for one service…

Unlike a lot of people here on TLS, I wandered away from my church unhappy with the theology and teachings, not because the people there made me leave. This meant that most of them don't know why I stopped going (and most haven't tried to reach out, either). But I...

church as self-harm

http://theunsparedrod.wordpress.com/2013/11/25/outloud/   i wrote this tonight about church last night (sunday). i thought belonging would make things easier. somehow i thought i could do this. all i have found is that while i belong, i also do not believe as...

belonging

this is a post i wrote about what happened when i decided to join our church. i'm still kind of bemused, uncertain, giddy from doing it. http://theunsparedrod.wordpress.com/2013/11/23/measure/

Conservatism is not always where you expect

I follow and interact with a diverse range of people online, especially on Twitter. One of those is Tiffany Reisz, author of The Siren, first book in a series of books about, Nora, a professional dominatrix and her attempts to get published. The writing is very good...

what was your final Jenga block?

I think what really started me on my road to deconstruction was two things: The Church: The way I was treated at church when I tried to be myself and ask honest questions caused me to realize that the church is a controlling institution and that I would have to...

sacred and desecrated

Here's a quote from one of my most favorite thinkers and writers, Wendell Berry: "There are no sacred and un-sacred places. There are only sacred and desecrated places." If you want to watch a very rare and excellent interview of Berry, you can watch it here.