by David Hayward | Mar 10, 2013 | Ideas
Hey everyone! Every day I send out Daily Bread from The Lasting Supper. Then on Sundays I send out our weekly, and more personal, “lapletters”. Check your spam boxes to make sure you are receiving them. Today I included a free gift… a free download...
by David Hayward | Mar 9, 2013 | Ideas
So today we had our first hangout and it was a success. It was called “Moving On With Meaning” with Richard Harty, one of our members. The hangout was FULL! You can watch our conversation here: . This is exclusively for TLS members, so please keep it...
by David Hayward | Mar 8, 2013 | Feelings
Annie Dillard, in her classic Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, writes: Thomas Merton wrote, ‘There is always a temptation to diddle around in the contemplative life, making itsy-bitsy statues.’ There is always an enormous temptation in all of life to diddle around making...
by David Hayward | Mar 7, 2013 | Feelings
We are lonely in the universe. We can surround ourselves with other people, but as long as we aren’t living openly with ourselves then we will continue to experience this loneliness. Plus it helps to find at least one other person. I have a few people locally who I am...
by David Hayward | Mar 6, 2013 | Ideas
We’re going to have a “google hangout” this Saturday at 10am Pacific Time. That’s 11am Mountain Time, 12pm Central Time, 1pm Eastern Time, and 2pm Atlantic Time. I’m hoping those in other countries will be able to join us as well… from...
by David Hayward | Mar 5, 2013 | Feelings
It is important and necessary to take ownership for whatever suffering I have experienced. It empowers me to recognize and own my participation, however small, in the things I’ve suffered. Even if it’s a fraction of a percentage point, at least it gives me...
by David Hayward | Mar 4, 2013 | Feelings
I witnessed something really amazing last night. First of all, I am at an event my son Joshua puts on called “Breakthrough Mastery”. His goal is to be the next Tony Robbins. At 25 years old, he’s well on his way. This was a very intense course with...
by David Hayward | Mar 3, 2013 | Feelings
Waiting: a learned skill. Waiting in silence: a supreme art. Waiting in silence during adversity: a necessary posture. (Click on the image to receive a free high-quality, print-ready download of this painting “We Await the...
by David Hayward | Mar 2, 2013 | Ideas
My guess is this: 1. if you’ve left a community then you already have courage; 2. if you have courage then you have what it takes to take the next step; 3. if you’re prepared to take the next step then there’s nothing stopping you. Isn’t it...
by David Hayward | Mar 1, 2013 | Feelings
After you make the momentous decision and leave a relationship or a community, or if you are required to leave, you will hear about how great they are doing without you. It might hurt. News Flash: Their lives are going on without you! Another News Flash: You could not...
by David Hayward | Feb 28, 2013 | Feelings
Anger is a natural, human response to being hurt. It can be as slight as being called a name to being the victim of an outrageous injustice. Have you read the beautiful forum, “why am I SO angry after SO long?”? Kudos to you amazing story tellers and...
by David Hayward | Feb 27, 2013 | Feelings
I love this happy verse: I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow (Jeremiah 31:13). Let’s put another spin on it: the things that used to make us sad or mad can now make us glad. That is, what used to hurt then...
by David Hayward | Feb 26, 2013 | Ideas
First of all, I want to invite all existing members to upgrade, if you wish, to an annual membership. It is $75/ year instead of $7/ month. So a little money saved. New members joining have the option to choose monthly or annually. Some folks at the beginning were...
by David Hayward | Feb 25, 2013 | Spirituality
I remember some years ago a friend of mine started a small group in his home. He said that he was looking forward to having a really dynamic discussion group. The first few meetings went fine, as typical. But then conflicts began to arise and conversations got...
by David Hayward | Feb 23, 2013 | Ideas
I find it very helpful to keep a book on the go that is from outside of my world. I do this for a couple of reasons. 1. Open mind: It keeps my mind open. It helps me remember that there are other worlds and perspectives than my own. Sometimes it actually encourages me...
by David Hayward | Feb 22, 2013 | Spirituality
When you leave the church, you might feel a little lost. You might feel that your spirituality, like water poured out of a bottle, is just spreading out in all directions with no focus. You might feel as though your spirit has dissipated like helium in the atmosphere....